Melisa Keenan

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The Number One Thing That Brought My Husband and I Back Together

What was the number one thing that brought my husband and I back together?

After all of the arguments, separation, many talks about divorce....after the painful blame and accusations...after judging him and hating him for the pain he had caused me, and the lies he had told me...after trying to manipulate and control anything that I could in the marriage just to create safety...

After all of that, we really did love each other.

We both felt scared and alone and we both really wanted to stop fighting and get on the same team.



So what was it?

It was acceptance and seeking wholeness, fluffy words that mean:

I got still. I met my own darkness and matched it with his.

I stopped running and believing that I was afraid and alone and I settled into a marriage with an imperfect man... and accepted that I too, was imperfect.

We could be in the pit together. We could both be h-u-m-a-n together.It took ALL my war paint. ALL the warrior spirit I could muster, to STOP reacting in fight or flight and just BE. It is scary, it is unknown...and it is absolutely beautiful.

Can you meet him in his darkness?

Can you pour your warrior spirit into your own softening?

Because true intimacy only happens when we share our light AND our darkness.

It's just the way it is.

This is why I created this powerful tool to help you go there.

If you can't do it for you, do it for him, do it for your marriage, do it for the intimacy your soul longs for. 4 days. 4 experiences.

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