Individual coaching
If you're reading this page, it is likely because there’s something going on in your life and relationships that is causing you pain, and you want answers and solutions. As you and I both know, no amount of Googling your problems will ever make them go away or make them better. I was the queen of "Googling my problems," and then I would read and read, feel worse and worse, and then do it again. Let’s move past this stuck place and step into action.
I want to share the following statements with you, so that you know the kind of problems I help women overcome.
I hear these statements commonly. Do you relate with them?
“I am so guarded; it’s hard for me to let down my walls.”
“I have lost my excitement about life. There’s no connection in my marriage. And I feel like my friends don’t care about me as much as I care about them.”
“I feel like I have to do everything alone, and I am resentful of my husband…I’m completely capable but is it too much to ask to be taken care of, for once?!”
“I am so tired. I am just so tired.”
“I just wish I could relax and live in gratitude for all I have.”
“I can’t keep living like this anymore. I feel so alone in my marriage.”
Some of the most kind hearted,
service-oriented women, wives, and mothers are deeply unsatisfied. They have lost their connection to intimacy and therefore lost their connection to joy.
I help women who are struggling in these ways to:
Rekindle the beauty of connection in relationships.
Come alive again in life, like when you were a kid and everything was new and magical.
Cultivate peace and rebuild trust in your relationships.
Receive the good in your life.
Heal, find a softening, and deep rest to your soul.
You can become the container for all of this beautiful, messy, playful, amazing, chaotic thing we call life... and LET LIFE FLOW THROUGH YOU.
There is a lost doorway to joy, that every woman should know…and this is what I guide women to. It is within you.
I also hear women ask with vulnerability, “I am afraid to try. What if it doesn’t work? And then, what does that say about me?”
They want to know:
>>>> Can I ACTUALLY change my marriage?
>>>> Will this REALLY make a difference for me?
>>>> Is this EVERYTHING that I need?
>>>> Will this WORK?
On my journey, I had the same questions.
I had the same fears and hesitations. But the truth is, I am not here to teach you any weird tricks or cookie-cutter formula. The road to YOUR deeply fulfilling life and intimate relationships is personal to you. I am here to guide you to the most beautiful and true version of YOUR life. Only YOU know what that looks like, and I am the mentor along your journey to make this happen!
I do not expect you to know with 100% certainty that you are ready to coach with me. This is why I invite you to fill out this application and book your call now. On the call I hold space for your heart and help you get really clear about what you want, and what your next best steps are to get you there.
“I just wanted to say thank you Melisa for coaching me. I’m the girl that thought that pampering & staying busy would help me feel better long term. I spent more, did more, constantly doing & in perfectionist worry-trap of never feeling “good enough.” I thought that the “perfect schedule,” the “perfect pampering,” the “perfect husband” would set me free from worry but nothing & no one is perfect. It’s time to accept myself exactly the way I am. I am opening up to love & compassion & rest, with trust in God’s timing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for being a genuine, compassionate, loving coach! You have a gift!”
KV NYC
"I now see the possibility of emerging fully from my shell. It’s a slow process for sure, but I am no longer stuck. When upsetting things happened before, I’d shut down emotionally, often for weeks or months at a time. I still fall down, but not as deeply, and I’m so much more able to work myself out of it. I would not have traded this experience for anything. I have grown so much in the past couple of months. I feel more like myself...like I’m becoming more like my actual self, who I was meant to be before I told myself it wasn’t good enough."
JULIE C. NYC
“I began coaching with you a year ago, and I have got to tell you… When you told me that if I worked on myself, it would all become clear to me, I was terrified. I had no idea how I was ever going to get to that space, I could not see me separating myself and my happiness in the marriage that I had. And now I see it. Like, I can't go back. I feel stronger. My inner-core feels so much more confident and joyful. The friendships I have created and I am still continuing to create... it boggles my mind. My whole life I deeply wanted a circle of friends that I can count on, play with, and feel accepted and loved, and supported. And now it is EXACTLY what I have. It is soo wonderful and fulfilling. It is still scary, the idea that our marriage could end, and what that might mean for the kids and all of that… but right now, from where I am standing… I see myself here, with my business, and my friends, and my life… I will not let my marriage hold me back from my own fulfillment.”