What do you hear when you pause to listen?

Intimacy Coaching is a tricky one... it asks you to get 'naked' and be proud about it. It takes the most courageous of souls.

How often will she feel inspired by what I share… it speaks to her soul, but as soon as she goes to write the message in my inbox, she says to herself, "no, you can't do that."

How often will she make an appointment with me, and then cancel at the last minute because something inside says, "you're not worthy."

How many business strategists will she hire thinking if she can just get down the right business strategies THEN she can focus on her heart, her intimacy, her relationships... but THEN never comes...

How often does she think, "I cannot justify the purchase, I cannot invest simply into MYSELF, and hope it affects my business..."

It's the nature of intimacy. The journey TO me and your intimacy is WAYYY harder than the journey WITH me and your intimacy.

Yes, I know. I see you. I know your heart because I have been there AND because I see it time and time again.

Don't worry, your heart is persistent. She wont stop knocking.

So make me a promise, and don't stop listening.

I am also very aware that right now, it feels like survival for me to unplug from that consciousness, and listen DEEPLY within. Deeper than ever before. Listen like my life depends on it.

So, I listen. And I guide my clients to listen too.

What are we hearing when we listen? What insane profound truths come out of this practice?

It is actually the simplest of things.

“Go snuggle today.”
“Take a little more time with her.”
“You’re .0001 degree off there, just adjust this one piece and it will have a profound impact.”
“Take more walks.”

The nudges are quiet and simple…

And yet when I ignore them, a raging storm comes up. It’s back to the global fear consciousness. It’s back to the thunderous voices beckoning my heart this way and that way.

We have enough women who are busy, stressed out, fearful, and frantic.

What if I just chose another way of being? What if we literally took a stand against the current climate of society and said…

I refuse.

And instead…

I receive.

I receive in presence, I receive pleasure, I receive this moment, I receive this love, I receive my partner, I receive my children, I receive all the goodness that life is bringing my way.

But it’s a conscious choice.

No one else can make you slow down and find your peace, find your intimacy.

It is up to you.

If you want this more than anything, let me be your witness in choosing the feminine. Let me take you by the hand where we can navigate this new way of BEing together.

Perhaps taking the time to listen internally, taking the time for into-me-see, is actually THE WAY through this whole thing. These tiny messages, simple, yet absolutely life-saving.